Writing a big novel set in the 16th century, full of love, sex and religious passion, Emma Darwin speaks about the importance of an open mind in relationships.Read More
If my goal is fill my mind with the things of the Lord, and everything that is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtuous, and praiseworthy (Phil. 4:8), then what can I think about and meditate on that has all of these qualities? The Lord, of course. He is the standard of good. His character is the definition of all of these traits. There are other things that fall into these categories, but you have to be careful that you’re not making them a god in your mind. God is one Person you can worship, adore, and “idolize” without sinning.Read More
Have you ever felt rejected? Alone, unwanted, unwelcome, an outcast, uninvited? Even if these words aren’t the defining descriptions of most of our lives, we have all felt them at times. How do we deal with past rejections? How do we deal with present hurts? How do we protect ourselves from future disappointments? In her book Uninvited, Lysa TerKeurst dives personally into her past rejections and shows us how she moved from begging for scraps of love from everything she could to living from a place of abundance in the love of God.Read More
Do you want to spend more time in the Lord? Great! You should! But just keep in mind a few caveats. You will need to sacrifice a few things. You might be misunderstood by others. But if the goal is to know the Lord more and invite Him into every area of our lives, then these sacrifices don't really matter. They're not worth the sweet fellowship of growing closer and closer to our Savior.
Charles Stanley in his In Touch devotional for May 3, 2017, gave some great advice. Here are three areas to give youselves (and others) grace in:Read More
Do you have a “Life Verse”? Whenever I hear that phrase, I get a little squirmy, because I don’t have one Life Verse. I have a dozen! 😊 I always have a hard time choosing favorites of anything, because it’s comparing apples with oranges—each one has something unique and beneficial about it. But here are a few of my favorites, verses I return to time after time for hope, encouragement, and reminders (which I need often).
I believe that at least some of these verses will encourage you to hope and trust in the Lord, as they have for me.Read More
What is the Christian life supposed to look like? Once we’re saved (justification), then we spend the rest of our lives on Earth being changed, living out our salvation in our everyday lives (sanctification). The Holy Spirit comes to live in us, and He convicts us, encourages us, teaches us, comforts us, and slowly changes us into the image of Jesus (Romans 8:29). But it’s easy for us task-oriented believers to get bogged down in checking off the lists in our Christian lives.Read More
Have you ever felt so hopeless you didn’t know what to do? Have you ever felt weighed down and stuck in the Bog of Despair (or, Slough of Despair, according to John Bunyan in Pilgrim’s Progress)? You know as a child of God that you shouldn’t feel that way, but you do. What do you do? How do you boss your feelings around when you can’t see anything else?Read More
So, when my husband told me that he considered divorcing me as a viable option, I freaked out! Then he explained what he meant.Read More
Rachel Miller, single,
has an unique perspective on romantic relationships that applies to any relationship.
Rachel Miller, single, has an unique perspective on romantic relationships that applies to any relationship.Read More
Single right now, Moriah shares her insights into ideal relationships and how to make that happen practically.Read More
Chris Brogan, entrepreneur
Relationships are hard! Chris gives some insight into his ideals about relationships and how best to make them happen practically.
Relationships are hard! Chris Brogan gives some insight into his ideals about relationships and how best to make them happen practically.Read More
we don’t all define the same words in the exact same ways. I tend to assume you understand what I mean when I use a phrase over and over, but you might understand it differently. So here are the terms and abbreviations I use often on my blog and what I mean by them:
Unfortunately, we don’t all define the same words in the exact same ways. I assume you understand what I mean when I use a phrase over and over, but you might understand it differently. So here are the terms and abbreviations I use often on my blog and what I mean by them:Read More
Why is marriage such hard work? Why didn’t anyone tell me that Happily Ever After takes a lot of Blood, Sweat, and Tears? A lot of tears. Any relationship can be good, but a good relationship requires us to work hard.Read More
We hear all the time that we just need to “trust in Jesus more.” But what exactly does this mean? How do we learn to trust Him more? I have reverse-engineered the path from Trust. If trust Requires Hope, Hope Requires Faith, Faith Requires Belief, and Belief Requires Truth, then we need to start with Truth.Read More
Bravo! Encore! Amen! Hallelujah! Each word is just for praising.
We love to express our admiration or appreciation for a job well done, a song well sung, a masterpiece of art, a piece of music that moved us, a dessert that surpassed our expectations, or a sermon that hit home. Those are the kind of things that are worthy of our attention.Read More
Philippians 4:8: “…If there is any Virtue…think on these things” (New Heart English Bible).
If we are to “take every thought captive” (2 Cor. 10:5, NASB), then we need to know what kinds of things deserve to be let into the doors of our minds. Everything else gets entry refused. Philippians 4:8 gives us a checklist of things we should be thinking about: true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, worthy to be repeated, virtuous, and praiseworthy things. Today we will be looking at the seventh in this list: virtuous.Read More
Marriage is hard! It can be good, but it’s a lot of hard work. More than I ever remember hearing about. I want you to know that whatever your marital status, whatever stage of any romantic relationship, whatever struggles you’re facing in your relationship, there is HOPE in Jesus!Read More
I don’t know about you, but with all the false news stories going around, and rumors of corruption and scandal abounding everywhere it seems, I want to be extra careful about the news I spread. I may not be talkative or extroverted, but that doesn’t mean I don’t struggle with gossip. And it can be so subtle that I don’t even realize I’m listening to it, much less doing it. What about you? Do you find yourself listening to news that you found out wasn’t true or repeating something damaging?Read More
Philippians 4:8: “Whatever is lovely…think on these things.”
When I think of things that are “lovely,” I think of a mountain lake, so still that the reflection looks like a second mountain; green trees and wildflowers surrounded by the snowy peaks. Maybe you think of a sunset, or a beautiful model, or a masterpiece of art. But the Greek word for “lovely” (prosphilḗs) has more of an idea of a gift, an offering, acceptable, a friendly attitude towards, having affection towards. The Greek word in this form is only used here in the entire New Testament (NT)!Read More
Philippians 4:8: “Whatever is pure…think on these things.”
If we are to “take every thought captive” (2 Cor. 10:5, NASB), then we need to know what kinds of things deserve to be let in. Everything else gets entry refused. Philippians 4:8 gives us a checklist of descriptions about things we should be thinking: true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, worthy to be repeated, virtuous, and praiseworthy. Today we will be looking at the fourth in this list: pure.
What does the word pure really mean? How can we ingest thoughts and images that are pure? And is it really that important?Read More